I love blondes. I was born with almost white blonde hair...have the photos to show it. I also am mostly Irish and German so I have blue eyes and very light skin.
Except for a few short periods in my life I have been blonde. I had an unfortunate incident where I tried to go red when I was a teen and wound up with orange. I also went with a milk chocolate base color.
I just feel best when my hair is blonde. I don't have bleached blonde hair. My hair is more of a golden which is close to my natural blonde. When I turned 15 my hair had darkened naturally and was more of a dark golden.
I am not partial to men with red hair. Never have been. I like men who are blonde or brunette. I think brunette hair, when it's shiny and healthy can look gorgeous.
I don't like super bleached blonde hair which looks dry and damaged. If it's healthy and has moisture, I like it.
Just my opinions of course. Great question. Thanks.